What we have to accept is that no one can lead you to emotional availability not even someone you are truly in love with.
You were born with it, then life happened, and you developed coping strategies.
So, how can you know if a potential partner is open to love or not? They’ll be proud to introduce you to their friends and happy for you to meet their family.
However, when This charm can be seductive, flattering, and extremely hard to resist – and, when it goes cold, it can tempting to blame oneself for not giving enough. If they insist on calling all the shots, chances are they just aren't ready for emotional equality. They use their past as a way to avoid intimacy Be very wary of the guy or gal that comes with a full carousel of self-confessed ‘baggage’ that makes them avoid even the smallest commitment.More harsh truth: if someone is truly interested in being your partner, they won’t leave you hanging until the last minute or make you feel guilty for wanting to plan time with them.The fact is, if you are a priority on someone’s emotional radar, you’ll be a priority in their schedule. Everything is on their terms Another classic sign of an emotionally unavailable person is that any relationship is always on their terms.'5 Signs The Person You're Dating Is Emotionally Unavailable.' Found at Yosef, writing for Your Tango, 2014.'6 Signs You're In Love With An Emotionally Unavailable Man' Found at