– Close for a meeting This mainly applies to online dating.If you’ve received a message of interest, and you want to date, then your next message should be to ask for one.Just ask her, “Listen, I have some ideas about what to do tonight, but I wanted to know if you want me to just take charge, or if I should ask you first?” Deferring to the woman gives her the chance to let you know, and subtly shows off your gentlemanly ways.
If you’re meeting her, give good directions or ask for them.
So have fun, and be open to someone else that you may be otherwise uninterested in.
You never know; perhaps the person holds back so the first impression was aloof, but the moment you cracked the right joke, the ice melted.
Do NOT tell her your life’s dreams and aspirations. If you’re seeking long term results, you want to make sure she can appreciate who you really are, and you want to show her your warts so that she might come to love them.
If you just want to have fun on a Friday night, might I advise that showing your warts is not only unnecessary, but counter productive to a good time. we’re not looking to find out if our political or religious views match yet or how many bad relationships we’ve survived or the name of her dog that just died.